Creative Ways to Include the Groom in Bachelorette Party

Seeking innovative approaches to including the groom in the bachelorette party? Yes! You read it right, the groom! Bachelorette parties are not just for the bride and her girlfriends anymore. There has been a recent trend toward including the groom in the celebrations. After all, he is the other half of the wedding equation!

Planning to include the groom in the bachelorette party can be a bit tricky, but it is definitely doable. If you're looking for inspiration, here are some amusing and unique suggestions to get you going:

Have a Joint Party

What better way to include the groom in the bachelorette party than to have a joint party? This way, everyone can celebrate together, and no one feels left out. Plus, it saves you the hassle of planning two separate parties!

You can also opt to have two different parties with a few joint bachelorette party activities. For example, you can start the night by going out to dinner together and then head to your respective parties afterward. Or, if you're planning on having a day party, do a group activity like go-karting or paintballing beforehand.

Make Him the Guest of Honor

If you're not keen on having a joint party, another fun way to include the groom is to make him the guest of honor. It is his big day, too, after all! Give him the VIP treatment by getting him his own "survival kit" filled with things like a six-pack of beer, snacks, and a pair of sunglasses. 

And don't forget to give him a few fun tasks to do! For example, you can have him collect phone numbers from all the ladies at the party or be in charge of taking photos. It is a great way to get him involved and also ensure that he has a good time.

Get Him Involved in the Planning

Get the groom to participate in the planning even if you're doing the traditional route. It is an excellent option if you're having a larger bachelorette party and need some help with logistics. He can help with things like booking transportation or making reservations.

And if you're stuck on ideas, you can always ask him for suggestions. He may have some great ideas that you would never have thought of!

Let Him Be the DJ

Who doesn't love a good party? If the groom is into music, why not let him be the DJ for the night? It is a great way to get him involved and ensure everyone has a good time. He can make a playlist of all the bride's favorite songs and get everyone dancing.

It is also a great opportunity to show off his musical taste. So if he's into EDM or hip-hop, this is his chance to get everyone grooving.

Make it A Surprise Party

Have the groom arrive as a surprise guest at the bachelorette party. It is great to start the party with a bang and get everyone excited. Imagine the face of the bride-to-be when she sees her groom walk through the door!

You can have him show up at the end of the night for a more low-key surprise. Or, if you're feeling adventurous, you can plan an entire surprise party for the bride and groom.

Include Him in the Games

Parties are not complete without some fun bachelorette party games. And there's no reason to exclude the groom from these exciting activities! There are tons of great games out there that are perfect for a mixed group. For example, you can play "Mr. and Mrs." where the bride and groom answer questions about each other. Or, you can have a couples-themed scavenger hunt.

If you want to keep things lighthearted, you can opt for some sillier games. For example, you can play "Pin the Macho on the Man" or "How Well do You Know the Groom?". These are great ice-breakers and are sure to get everyone laughing.

Let the Groom Give a Speech

Record a video or let the groom write a letter for the bride to open during the bachelorette party. It is a great way to include him in the festivities and give everyone a good laugh. In the video, he can tell everyone how excited he is for the big day or offer some words of wisdom for the bride-to-be.

And if you really want to get inventive, the groom can give a speech in person. It is an excellent option if you're having a smaller party and everyone knows each other. He can toast the bride-to-be and say a few words about how much he loves her.

Send Him on a Scavenger Hunt

For a truly unique twist, send the groom on a scavenger hunt! Hide clues around the house or the venue where the party is taking place and let him use his detective skills to track down his bride-to-be.

And if you want to make things fun, you can even turn it into a couple's scavenger hunt. Hide clues for the groom and bride-to-be to find separately and see who can track them down first.

Create a Life-sized Standee of the Groom

Making a life-size standee of the groom is an option for those who wish to get artistic. It is a great way to include him in the party without having him there. It's sure to have a good chuckle about it.

To add to the excitement, you can dress the standee up in different outfits or give him props. For example, you can have him holding a sign that says, "I'm with the bride" or "I'm here for the free drinks." 

Final Thoughts

Including the groom in your bachelorette party is way more fun. And with these great ideas, you're sure to throw a party that everyone will remember. So go ahead and let the groom join in on the fun!

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